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Home With Your Brand New Baby
Written by nmhealth on September 9, 2008 at September 9th, 2008
OK, So We’re Home, Now What?
Having children can be frightening, exciting, tiring, and nerve-wracking all at the same time. When you bring your first newborn home from the hospital, you’re likely to think, “OK, so we’re home, now what?” Here are some ideas of things that you can do with your newborn.
Most first-time moms are overwhelmed and tired when they first bring their baby home. They’ve gotten used to having people available around the clock to answer questions or concerns they may have about their newborn. Friends and family have come to the hospital to visit and Mom may not have held baby much while there.
It’s helpful to realize that for the first couple of weeks your baby is going to be either eating or sleeping most of the time. You will have to change their diapers and bathe them, but for the most part the beginning is the easiest time you’ll have raising children. Take advantage of this time to rest and recuperate from labor. You worked hard, Mom, you deserve it!
Having the help of your spouse, a family member, or friend would be great for the first week or so. They can be available to watch the baby while you take a nap or shower. Someone being there with you will help you feel less scared when it’s just the two of you.
Be protective of your baby and your home when you first come home. If you would like to have guests, by all means, do. Just be sure they understand that anyone who might be ill will have to wait until they are healthy before they are allowed to come by.
Keeping things absolutely quiet isn’t necessary, but you will want your home to be quieter than may be normal. Don’t play the television, computer, or music too loud, but don’t go overboard. While babies do need the home to be calm and serene, they don’t need it to be lifeless.
Show the baby around the house, spending a good amount of time in the rooms where they’ll spend the most of their days. Your bedroom (if you plan to keep the baby in with you), the nursery, and the living room are all places they’ll see a lot of.
Most importantly, love the baby and trust in your own maternal instincts. You may feel overwhelmed and even a little bit afraid. That’s a normal reaction when the world you’ve known has been turned upside down. Take your time, learn about your baby, and enjoy loving it.
Before long you’ll be a professional at taking care of your little one and you’ll wonder why you were so scared. You may have wondered what you were supposed to do once you brought the baby home from the hospital. Now you know that it wasn’t as hard as you thought.










